{"id":787,"date":"2017-10-01T12:00:59","date_gmt":"2017-10-01T09:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/?p=787"},"modified":"2017-10-03T17:09:30","modified_gmt":"2017-10-03T14:09:30","slug":"yeniden-baslamanin-hafifligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/index.php\/2017\/10\/01\/yeniden-baslamanin-hafifligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Yeniden Ba\u015flaman\u0131n Hafifli\u011fi.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Beni bilenler bilir..<\/p>\n<p>Bilmeyenlere ise k\u0131saca anlatmak isterim.<\/p>\n<p>Ben hayat\u0131m\u0131 kontroll\u00fc ya\u015famaya adam\u0131\u015f, her an ataca\u011f\u0131 ad\u0131m\u0131 \u00f6nceden planlam\u0131\u015f, ba\u015f\u0131na ne gelirse gelsin plan\u0131 olan tiplerdenim. Ancak \u015fu anda \u00f6yle bir noktaday\u0131m ki t\u00fcm planlar\u0131m \u00e7\u0131kmaz, t\u00fcm ihtimaller t\u0131kanm\u0131\u015f durumda.<\/p>\n<p>Bence b\u00f6yle durumlarda insanlar\u0131n nefes almaya ihtiyac\u0131 oluyor. Bir \u015feylere zorunda olman\u0131n yerini &#8220;yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n hafifli\u011fi al\u0131yor&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Ben \u00f6yle bir noktaday\u0131m ki her \u015feye yeniden ba\u015flamak istiyorum. T\u00fcm k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klara, tamamlanmam\u0131\u015flara hatta ba\u015flanmam\u0131\u015flara. Zihinde olu\u015fmu\u015f ama hayata ge\u00e7memi\u015flere.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n hafifli\u011finin katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en g\u00fczel duygu hi\u00e7 bir \u015feye sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ger\u00e7e\u011fidir. Hi\u00e7 bir \u015feye sahip olmayan\u0131n korkacak bir \u015feyi de olmuyor.<\/p>\n<p>Yeniden ba\u015flamak insan\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr hissettiriyor. Hay\u0131r demeyi, sadece hayallerinizin pe\u015finden ko\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ben yeniden ba\u015fl\u0131yorum hayata, peki bunu nas\u0131l yap\u0131yorum?<\/p>\n<p>Hata yapmaktan korkmuyorum art\u0131k, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6zg\u00fcr\u00fcm. Yeniden ba\u015flayacak ve hayallerimin pe\u015finden gidecek kadar cesur hissediyorum. Her zaman s\u00f6yledi\u011fim gibi; mutluluk, yapmak zorunda olduklar\u0131n\u0131zda de\u011fil, hayallerinizde gizlidir. Yaln\u0131zca hayalleriniz size hayat amac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bulman\u0131zda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/index.php\/2017\/03\/23\/hayat-amaci\/\">Hayat Amac\u0131<\/a>\u00a0nedir diyorsan\u0131z daha \u00f6nce yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m yaz\u0131y\u0131 okuyabilirsiniz.-<\/p>\n<p>Size tavsiyem e\u011fer art\u0131k kuracak plan\u0131n\u0131z kalmad\u0131ysa, t\u00fcm yollar t\u00fckenip \u00e7\u0131kmaza geldiyseniz duvarlar\u0131 y\u0131k\u0131p devam etmeyin. Unutmay\u0131n o \u00e7\u0131kmaza kendinizi sokan yine kendiniz oldunuz. Pes de etmeyin, her \u00e7\u0131kmaz soka\u011f\u0131n asl\u0131nda bir geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc vard\u0131r. Geri d\u00f6n\u00fcn ve o noktadan yeniden ba\u015flay\u0131n. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te yeni bir &#8220;siz&#8221;i ke\u015ffedecek, kendinizi daha iyi tan\u0131yacak ve yeni hayat\u0131n\u0131zda neleri isteyece\u011finizi bileceksiniz. Bazen kaybetmek, kazanmaktan daha \u00e7ok \u015fey katar insana. Yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n en g\u00fczel hissi ise ba\u015faraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za daha \u00e7ok inanman\u0131zd\u0131r..<\/p>\n<p>Ve size benden bir s\u0131r..<\/p>\n<p>Bazen hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kabul etmek hata yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermenin en iyi yoludur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kabul etmek yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n ilk a\u015famas\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yoldan ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n ancak inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yolda yeniden ba\u015flama cesaretine sahip olun. Mutluluk belki ke\u015ffetmedi\u011finiz yollarda gizlidir..<\/p>\n<p>-Bu yaz\u0131 ile yeniden ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 ve farkl\u0131 yollar arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmenizi istiyorum. T\u00fcm k\u00fcsl\u00fckleri geride b\u0131rak\u0131yorum. T\u00fcm hayat\u0131mda oldu\u011fu gibi sizlere ula\u015fmam\u0131 sa\u011flayan bu sitede de de\u011fi\u015fiklikler olacak. 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