{"id":910,"date":"2020-02-29T16:07:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-29T13:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/?p=910"},"modified":"2020-02-29T23:22:22","modified_gmt":"2020-02-29T20:22:22","slug":"alisilmis-mutsuzluk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/index.php\/2020\/02\/29\/alisilmis-mutsuzluk\/","title":{"rendered":"Al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Mutsuzluk.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Uzun bir aran\u0131n ard\u0131ndan herkese merhabalar. Benim sizdeki yoklu\u011fumun anlam\u0131n\u0131 bilmem ama sizin bendeki yoklu\u011funuz anlam\u0131 \u00e7ok derin..<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Bir aksilik olmaz ise bundan sonra \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki haftadan itibaren her pazar saat 12.00\u2019da kahvelerinizi benimle yudumlamak isterseniz yeni yaz\u0131lar\u0131mla ben burada olaca\u011f\u0131m hepinizi bekliyorum. \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Gelelim bu haftan\u0131n konusuna, \u201cAl\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f Mutsuzluk\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Bu tabiri ilk defa Prof.Dr. Emre ALK\u0130N\u2019in \u201c\u0130ktisattan \u00c7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u201d kitab\u0131n\u0131n sat\u0131rlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda buldum. G\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm anda kitab\u0131 elimden b\u0131rakt\u0131m ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flad\u0131m. “Nedir bu al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f mutsuzluk?” diye sordum kendime. Bir insan nas\u0131l mutsuz olmaya al\u0131\u015fabilirdi ki?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Sonra her sabah metrob\u00fcste, metroda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm insanlar g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne geldi. G\u00f6zlerindeki mutsuzlu\u011fu fark ettim. Hi\u00e7 kimse ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayattan, \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015ften ya da okudu\u011fu b\u00f6l\u00fcmden memnun de\u011fildi ve daha \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc taraf\u0131 insanlar buna al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u201cBizim de kaderimiz buymu\u015f\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc san\u0131r\u0131m al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f mutsuzlu\u011fun halk aras\u0131nda bilinen hali. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Sonra kitab\u0131 tekrar a\u00e7t\u0131m ve s\u00f6z\u00fcn kalan\u0131n\u0131 okudum,<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0 \u00a0Al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f mutsuzluk i\u00e7in, hen\u00fcz ke\u015ffetmedi\u011fin mutlulu\u011fu feda etme..<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0\u0130nsanlar ke\u015ffetmeyi, hayatlar\u0131na yenilikler katmay\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya da memnuniyetsizli\u011fini g\u00f6rmezden gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda mutsuzlu\u011fa al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yordu ve mutlu olmak kendi ellerinde iken bile t\u0131rnak i\u00e7inde \u201crahatlar\u0131n\u0131\u201d bozup mutlu olmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalam\u0131yorlard\u0131. Herkes yeniden kendi tutkular\u0131n\u0131, arzular\u0131n\u0131 ve hayallerini ke\u015ffetmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa ve hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bu y\u00f6nde de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye karar verse kendilerini soktuklar\u0131 girdaptan yine kendileri sayesinde \u00e7\u0131kacaklar ve hayalini kurduklar\u0131 ya\u015fama ula\u015fabileceklerdi. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Ben, benim okurlar\u0131m\u0131n her zaman hayal kurdu\u011funu ve bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ellerinden gelen her \u015feyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0S\u00f6z\u00fcm meclisten d\u0131\u015far\u0131 tabi ki \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Ama yine de,<\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Mutsuzlu\u011fun al\u0131\u015f\u0131lacak bir \u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n direksiyonunu kendinizin kontrol etti\u011fini ve bu sebeple y\u00f6n\u00fc yine kendinizin belirleyece\u011fini unutmay\u0131n. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 Mutsuzluk kader de\u011fil tercihtir.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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Bunu payla\u015f:<\/h3>