{"id":925,"date":"2020-03-15T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-15T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/?p=925"},"modified":"2020-03-14T18:32:14","modified_gmt":"2020-03-14T15:32:14","slug":"pygmalion-etkisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ibrahimertekin.com\/index.php\/2020\/03\/15\/pygmalion-etkisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Pygmalion Etkisi.."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Bug\u00fcn muhtemelen daha \u00f6nce duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir etkiyi sizlerle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak istiyorum.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u00e7ok kaynakta bu efekti \u00f6\u011frenci \u00f6\u011fretmen \u00fczerinden \u00f6rneklendirerek anlatm\u0131\u015flar. K\u0131sacas\u0131 bir \u00f6\u011fretmen \u00f6\u011frencisine \u201csen ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z bir \u00f6\u011frencisin.\u201d derse o \u00f6\u011frenci ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z, \u201csen ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir \u00f6\u011frencisin.\u201d derse ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Asl\u0131nda kavram \u00e7ok daha geni\u015f ve tarihi olan bir kavram. \u00dczerine oyunlar\u0131n, m\u00fczikallerin kurguland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayr\u0131ca hakk\u0131nda efsaneler \u00fcretilen bir kavram. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Mesela bir efsaneye g\u00f6re kavram\u0131n \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 Pygmalion ad\u0131ndaki bir heykeltra\u015fa dayan\u0131yor. Bu heykeltra\u015f kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kusurlar\u0131na o kadar kafa yormu\u015f ki akl\u0131ndaki kusursuz kad\u0131n fig\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc yaratmak i\u00e7in bir kayay\u0131 oymaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f. Uzun s\u00fcren bu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan heykele kar\u015f\u0131 bir \u015fefkat duymaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f ve neticesinde ona a\u015f\u0131k olmu\u015f. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Bu hikayeden yola \u00e7\u0131karak kusursuz olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015feylerin neticesinde bize \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesinin etkisine bu heykeltra\u015f\u0131n ad\u0131 verilmi\u015f yani “Pygmalion”<\/strong> yada T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi ile “Kendini Ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftiren Kehanet”<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Daha sonra kavram \u00e7ok daha geni\u015fleyerek bir psikolojik yakla\u015f\u0131ma hatta bir e\u011fitim sistemine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Asl\u0131nda kavram kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin geli\u015fimi \u00fczerindeki etkinizi anlatmak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lsada ben size bug\u00fcn bu kavram\u0131 kendi geli\u015fiminiz i\u00e7in nas\u0131l kullanabilece\u011finizi anlatmak istiyorum. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Sahip oldu\u011fumuz beyin bir bilgisayar gibi klavye ba\u011flayarak programlanamasa dahi a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan yada kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan giren her s\u00f6z\u00fc bir \u00e7e\u015fit komut gibi alg\u0131layarak bunu eylemlerimize yans\u0131tma yetene\u011fine sahip.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0E\u011fer birisi size gelip ne kadar ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z, tembel ve hayatta hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyi ba\u015faramayacak biri oldu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yledi\u011finde kendinizi k\u00f6t\u00fc, tam tersi durumda da kendinizi gururlu hissediyorsan\u0131z neden bunu aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7erek, istedi\u011finizde ortaya m\u00fckemmel i\u015fler \u00e7\u0131kartabilecek birisi oldu\u011funuzu s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde ayn\u0131 gurur ve \u00f6zg\u00fcveni kendinize kazand\u0131ramayas\u0131n\u0131z ki?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Att\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yada ataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z 100 ad\u0131m\u0131n 99\u2019unda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuzda sizi \u00f6ven, kalan 1 ad\u0131mda hata yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda yeren insanlar\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc duymazdan gelin. Siz kendinize inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ve g\u00fcvendi\u011finiz s\u00fcrece beyniniz sizin kendiniz i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylediklerinizi kodlayacak ve eylemlerinizi bunun \u00fczerine kuracakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Bunu bir g\u00f6rev gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Nas\u0131l bir i\u015fe ba\u015flamadan \u00f6nce yada bitirince m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc aray\u0131p rapor veriyorsan\u0131z, sabah uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda o g\u00fcn neleri ba\u015farabilece\u011finizi ve gece yatmadan \u00f6nce de g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc ne kadar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ge\u00e7irdi\u011finizi kendinize s\u00f6yleme zahmetinden l\u00fctfen ka\u00e7\u0131nmay\u0131n. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0Unutmay\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kacak en sad\u0131k dost ta, en k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015fman da yine sizsiniz..<\/span><\/p>\n

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